38 Lessons In Business And Life

Since I’ve just celebrated my 38th birthday recently, I’m sharing my top 38 lessons in no particular order:

1. The biggest expense is the money you are not making.

2. Loose lips sinks ships.

3. Your vibes attract your tribe.

4. When someone is concerned, they have a lot of questions. When someone is hiding something, they have a lot of answers.

5. Insecurities are loud. Confidence is quiet.

6. If you can’t buy it twice, you can’t afford it.

7. A mentorship moment starts with an open mind and a closed mouth.

8. You can’t climb the ladder of success with your hands in your pocket.

9. The cleanest water has no fish. The cheapest person has no shame.

10. Show, not tell.

11. The world is changed by example, not opinion.

12. It’s only a riddle if you don’t know the answer.

13. A Tiger rarely shows its claws. A cat shows them all the time.

14. An amateur studies tactics. An expert studies logistics.

15. Revenue is vanity. Profit is sanity. Cash flow is reality.

16. Victory has a thousand fathers. Defeat is an orphan.

17. Great marketing cannot substitute sh*t product.

18. Truth does not mind being questioned. Lie does not like being challenged.

19. The heaviest thing in the world is not iron or gold, but an unmade decision.

20. It takes a ton of education to change an ounce of perception.

21. Good steel do not become nails.

22. You can make mistakes and still win. You can not make mistakes and still lose.

23. Without hard work, a great strategy remains a dream. Without a great strategy, hard work becomes a nightmare.

24. Pride comes before fall. But self doubt comes before victory.

25. Make your own economy.

26. Your energy introduces you before you even speak.

27. The ones who say yes and maybe will find more opportunities than those who say no.

28. Market speaks loudest.

29. Those who pay, pay attention. Those who don’t, won’t.

30. No money no talk. No talk no money.

31. A good plan today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow.

32. The difference between a dream and a goal is a plan and execution.

33. General skill makes general income. Specific skill makes specific income.

34. Creating a product for an existing audience is easier than trying to create an audience for a product.

35. What comes easy, wont last long. What isn’t easy, will last long.

36. Don’t speak unless you can improve the silence. Otherwise, silence is golden.

37. Don’t be clever. Be clear.

38. A hopeless man sees difficulty in every chance. A hopeful man sees chance in every difficulty.

38 trips around the sun, and still a lot more to learn and gain. Here’s to more!

Pink Myvi: The End Of An Era (2006-2024) And Hello Ativa

Few people know THIS is actually my first car ever. I bought a brand new Perodua Myvi way back in 2006, but I wasn’t steady behind the wheel yet since I hardly drove back then.

By the time I started driving more often, I have gotten a Toyota Vios, thus passing down this Myvi to my sister and mom. So despite being my first car, I didn’t really spend a lot of time in it.

It’s been 18 years of ownership…. and finally, it’s the end of the road for this ride. At least, for us.

In its place, I’ve bought a 2021 Perodua Ativa AV for Ashley. This was in the pipeline since early this year, as we knew it was a matter of time the Myvi would give out, and further repairs are just not worth it.

It wasn’t easy finding an Ativa unit that is the variant we want (AV, full spec), the color we want (white), and not a lot of crazy mileage for a car that’s still current. So we’re rather fortunate to land in on this unit that’s just clocked in around 43,xxx KM. Plus, the car dealer is only 15 minutes away from home!

So I booked the car, made the payment, and Ashley drove over the Myvi from KL to trade in – for whatever it’s worth (RM3,000, lol at least that was something). In less than a week, we got the car keys.

P.S. At this time last year, I bought a new car for my mother. Today, I’m purchasing another… but for my sister. Childhood is believing Santa Claus is real. Growing up is knowing Santa Claus isn’t real. Adulthood is realizing you are Santa Claus.

P.P.S. Since we’ve just gotten the keys to the Ativa, let me have first dips on the ride before passing this on to my sister.

Foam Dart Ops Castanho

Robert HBK and I joined a 40+ pax mini MILSIM at Batu Pahat.

We brought our only blasters to the game, the BK1/2S. While good for short range, it is outclassed by Springers at longer range. Still, we did good for its intended use.

The 2 highlights for me were

(1) the garrison of a small house in Round 2, that rekt a small team of incoming attackers by surprise

(2) the scenic route that Joe, Robert and I took to go around and flank the enemy’s base from behind

We held our ground in the first 2 rounds, though by the 3rd, half the team ran out of steam due to the hot weather.

Still fun in all!